Re-blog me but don’t hate on me


Okay, so I love it when people reblog me. I take it as a high form of praise or what I said sparked something or it just amused the hell out of them. Whatever the reason it makes me feel good and proves that what I write does seem to matter.

However, I just got reblogged for a second time by this lady. Her statement at the top of the page is: This site is to bring awareness as well asset others know that it is ok to explore ,enjoy ,share and feel comfortable and at ease with our sexuality.

She then reblogged my post Hot and Bothered. Which is fine. But then she took it a step further and wrote this comment under the repost:

Sometimes we have so much pent up feelings ,we think that there is only one way to work it off ,but it doesn’t always have to be that way .When we have delayed issues we get anxious , and stop thinking clearly ,that is not always good for us .Ladies we do need to practice a little restraint it does help.

Really? Really? Practice restraint? I’m not getting any. How much more restraint can I have? I thought your blog was about exploring sexuality and not being judgmental. In three sentences you boxed me into some vagina seeking hooker who cannot control herself. So I wrote in the comment below my re-post on her blog:

I appreciate the re-blog, but I don’t think there is only one way to work off frustrations. I think instead of just reblogging everyone else’s stuff you might want to come up with some of your own. That little ditty seems very judgmental for someone who has just started reading my blog yet has re-posted two of my posts.
I am not some hornball as you seem to imply, but rather a frustrated person who is dealing with a life issue in a very healthy way. If you are a good counselor, you would have seen that and not have allowed yourself to use me as some sort of “What not to do” symbol for your readers.
So please refrain from reposting my stuff  in the future unless you start writing something substantial to either go against it or for it, I don’t care. But flippant opinions that are solely based on quick judgements do not warrant the use of my work.
Write more. Judge less.

I assume she is trying to do good, and I have a pretty thick skin, but it really irks me when people use you to make themselves look good. To make themselves look like they know more than you when in reality she hasn’t written hardly a thing on her own that I can tell. I hope she does write. I hope she finds her own voice and makes her own posts worth re-posting. But as for now I’m just a bit mad. I’ll cool down in a bit. Counselor, my ass.

 

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  1. Way to go girl! Diplomatic yet you got the point across clearly.

  2. Gosh, I do enjoy your posts.

  3. You kind of remind me Kayden Kross(she’s a porn actres and a writer as well)-she writes very much the same way as you do, which I really do enjoy. Keep up with the good work.

  4. You go girlfriend! It’s funny I had seen that someone had reblogged your stuff and at first I have to admit I was a bit jealous. And then wondered how do you get someone to reblog your posts? Now I’m not so sure it’s such a great thing. I love that you called her on it.

  5. Reblogged this on Counsellinggroup2012 and commented:
    I am sorry if I have offended you that was not my intention ,I am doing this site as a school project .I reblog your work because sexuality is what I am focusing on ,when I add my comment ,it was for my assignment I didn’t think of how it would have impacted on you ,which was selfish of me ,please accept apology

  6. Honey is one of the sweetest and most forgiving souls I know…
    she harbors not bitterness/resentment for longer than ummm well…
    as long as it took her to write this post. She also speaks her mind!!! And those 2 qualities… make her one freakin great writer. So again.. this speaks volumes to the richness that gets stirred in her blog. We can all learn and grow from.. because this journey is a very very hard one!!!!!! xo 😉

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