Can I say that I am in love with this song…

Mary Lambert just might be my new hero!

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  1. I just finished reading your entire blog…I’m entirely blown away at how many of your entries I felt came from my own mind and experience. I just want you to know how much it means to me that you have made me feel not alone. My husband, who had known I have no experience with women yet identify as bi, is now aware that I am solely attracted to women at this time. He is adamant that we will not have an open marriage, or room for my exploring this. If I choose to leave, he has promised to never speak to me again and I will be non-existent in his world. He also, up until this week, was very outpouring with love/compliments/”you are my world” type of behavior. My heart is crushed that he will not accept something I cannot control. I’m not asking him to love it, but have human compassion for someone in crisis. But I digress. I’ve felt very alone and desperate and lost this week, and finding this blog has made visible a light at the end of the tunnel. A light of survivability. Thank you.

    • Hey Abby,
      I’m so happy that you have come into your own. It’s a blessing and a curse. I totally understand where you are coming from. Perhaps one day your husband can “forgive you.” Many women that I know have had husbands who were torn apart and then they became good friends after the fact. I think that would be my case if I ever had the nerve to leave, but who knows. People are strange when it comes to hurt. They cope different than what we think they would. You can contact me at if you ever need to chat. Also there is a great online forum call, It’s really a great way to share and find women who have been through exactly this. Big Hugs. You got this.
      P.S. Thank you so much for your comment. It was so brave of you and it’s the reason why I keep blogging. Even if my lesbian life is stagnant and stalled, I want women to know that we are still good people. That our feelings matter. You matter. Thank you so much.

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